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    <title>Allow the photos to suffice</title>
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      <name>domesticat</name>
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    <category term="photos" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Several times this year I've promised friends that when I went back to Tull for the Christmas holidays, that I would take pictures.  Most of them have trouble imagining a reality of a place like Tull, because few places like it still exist.

So, this year, I went home for Christmas and brought the camera.

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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[Several times this year I've promised friends that when I went back to Tull for the Christmas holidays, that I would take pictures.  Most of them have trouble imagining a reality of a place like Tull, because few places like it still exist.

So, this year, I went home for Christmas and brought the camera.

This is where I grew up.First, three slightly unrelated pictures:  two of my mother's Christmas trees (<a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/red-tree.jpg&amp;width=352&amp;height=523&amp;title=the%20red%20tree','photopopup','width=352,height=523,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: the red tree';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">the red tree</a>, <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/white-tree.jpg&amp;width=332&amp;height=522&amp;title=the%20white%20tree','photopopup','width=332,height=522,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: the white tree';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">the white tree</a>), and a shot of me by <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/me-sidewalk.jpg&amp;width=500&amp;height=479&amp;title=my%20class%20sidewalk','photopopup','width=500,height=479,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: my class sidewalk';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">my class sidewalk</a>.  (For an explanation, see '<a href="/node/183">Last night I went to Manderley again</a>.')

Tull <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/sign-vertical.jpg&amp;width=348&amp;height=529&amp;title=city%20limits%20sign','photopopup','width=348,height=529,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: city limits sign';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">city limits sign</a>, population 313.  I don't remember the sign being so <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/sign-horizontal.jpg&amp;width=531&amp;height=347&amp;title=weathered','photopopup','width=531,height=347,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: weathered';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">weathered</a> when I was last there, but it shows up in the photo.  Look to the <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/sign-grandparents.jpg&amp;width=528&amp;height=326&amp;title=left%20of%20the%20sign','photopopup','width=528,height=326,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: left of the sign';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">left of the sign</a> and you will see my grandmother's house.

Highway 190 is the main road.  Drive a mile or so, just past the old fire station, and there's a small, easily-missed <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/street-sign.jpg&amp;width=287&amp;height=447&amp;title=street%20sign','photopopup','width=287,height=447,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: street sign';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">street sign</a> on the right.

Welcome to M.I. Lane.  Like virtually every road in Tull, it is a <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/mi-lane-west.jpg&amp;width=286&amp;height=426&amp;title=one-lane','photopopup','width=286,height=426,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: one-lane';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">one-lane</a>, pea-gravel-and-asphalt road.  Follow it further and you will find my <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/parents-house.jpg&amp;width=319&amp;height=520&amp;title=parents%27%20house','photopopup','width=319,height=520,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: parents\' house';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">parents' house</a>.  Directly afterward, barely visible in the picture, is my sister's house.  After that, it's only a few hundred yards to the <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/mi-lane-east.jpg&amp;width=345&amp;height=523&amp;title=western%20end','photopopup','width=345,height=523,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: western end';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">western end</a> of the road, where it intersects with Cherry Street.

Follow Cherry Street into the forest, and you will come to the Saline River.  The <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/bridge-from-east.jpg&amp;width=353&amp;height=532&amp;title=one-lane','photopopup','width=353,height=532,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: one-lane';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">one-lane</a> plank bridge (referenced in the entry '<a href="/node/433">A Stretch Of Good Road</a>') that crosses the river never had a name.  Still, there's something <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/bridge-railing.jpg&amp;width=328&amp;height=528&amp;title=beautiful','photopopup','width=328,height=528,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: beautiful';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">beautiful</a> about it, even if it creaks when you walk across it.

Part of my reasoning for taking the camera was to go to the <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/cemetery-entrance.jpg&amp;width=330&amp;height=537&amp;title=cemetery','photopopup','width=330,height=537,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: cemetery';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">cemetery</a> where my grandfather, uncle, and many memories are buried.  Since my <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/headstone-reflection.jpg&amp;width=529&amp;height=347&amp;title=grandfather','photopopup','width=529,height=347,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: grandfather';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">grandfather</a>'s death in 1996, I have been searching for some way to make peace with my memories and my grief.  Until this trip, it had been years since I'd had the courage to come to the cemetery.  (For an entry about my grandfather, take a look at '<a href="/node/446">Winner-take-all on the waffles</a>.')

Buried next to him is my mother's youngest brother, <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/headstone-keith.jpg&amp;width=331&amp;height=532&amp;title=Keith','photopopup','width=331,height=532,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: Keith';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">Keith</a>, whose death all those years ago is still, to some degree, painful and raw.  (For an entry about him, and some degree of explanation, see '<a href="/node/188">Memoriam</a>.')

Further away, on the northern side of the cemetery, is <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/headstone-rustina.jpg&amp;width=348&amp;height=533&amp;title=Rustina','photopopup','width=348,height=533,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: Rustina';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">Rustina</a>, a childhood friend of my older sister, whom I wrote about in '<a href="/node/265">No Antecedent Necessary</a>.'

Even further away than that, on the far western side of the cemetery, is the grave of my <a href="#" onclick="window.open('http://domesticat.net/popup.php?z=http://domesticat.net/images/2001/tull/headstone-great-grandparents.jpg&amp;width=532&amp;height=344&amp;title=great-grandparents','photopopup','width=532,height=344,directories=no,location=no,menubar=no,scrollbars=no,status=no,toolbar=no,resizable=no,screenx=150,screeny=150');return false" onmouseover="window.status='photo popup: great-grandparents';return true" onmouseout="window.status='';return true">great-grandparents</a>.  Note the name:  MI &hellip; MI Lane.  Yes, for him; and I, after his wife, my great-grandmother, whose middle name was Amy.

At some point, I'll relay my thoughts on this journey.  But not now.  Not yet.  For now, allow the pictures to suffice.    ]]></content>
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