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Even I got THAT hint

Dateline: New Westminster, BC.
(Note to self: Go see the old one sometime.)

As I’ve retold this story countless times in the time since I’ve returned, I figured the least I could do is share it here as well. I suspect it loses some of its boozy, imperative nature when committed to the written word, though; I think it’s probably far funnier in person.

A cultural difference worth knowing: I was raised to hear pretty words, but not to take all of them at face value. An invitation to come stay with someone, if not repeated or mentioned again, was very likely someone just being polite — not something to be acted upon. It turns out this is not true of everyone: some people issue an invitation only once, really hoping you’ll take them up on it, and then shut up if you don’t act on it. Ah, North versus South, are there any gaffes this cultural divide can’t inspire?

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